We’ve been taught so many rules around sex. So many formulas that we’re supposed use. So many cultural expectations to fulfill. And many of us have been shamed into believing that sex and intimacy are just as shameful, high-stakes and stifling as culture tells us they should be.
I’m here to tell you this.
Your sex life does not have to bow to the rigid rules and expectations you’ve been told it must bow to. As we’re working together, this is the message you will regularly hear from me (in both words and actions).
I am not here to hand down mandates. You’ve surely already expericed enough people making demands on your sex life and telling you how you should be. I’m not about that.
I am here to help you explore. I’m here to answer the questions that you may have. And I’m also here to help you process and explore your curiosities as well as discomforts and pains around sex and sexuality.
Whether you are vanilla as freshly fallen snow or are kinky as a Portland sex dungeon, I’m here to help you explore and find yourself.
Whether you fly solo or are part of a polycule the size of a small city, I’m here to help you find yourself and help that self emerge.
Whether you are decolonizing your mind of the poison of purity culture or you are experiencing sexual pain, difficulties with orgasm, erectile issues or trouble with sexual desire, I’m here to help you find greater connection and intimacy in your life.
Your sex life belongs to you and the people you share it with. Let’s reclaim it and make that undeniably so.